We usually think of aggression as a negative emotion, but for leaders it can be a positive driver for change. Let me explain.
Notes:
According to the Cambridge Dictionary, “aggression” has a number of definitions:
“spoken or physical behaviour that is threatening or involves harm to someone or something” – obviously that’s bad, and not recommended behaviour in a professional setting...
“forceful playing in sport that is intended to win points” – it is this definition that I want to focus on today.
I am a big fan of the sport of Rugby. In Rugby, there is a defensive line of players intended to protect their goal line, and attacking pods of plays intended to break through the defensive live of the opposing team.
You cannot win a game of Rugby without being aggressive: players have to physically break through the defensive line of the opposing team, using strength and speed.
Most sports will have similar concepts: “being aggressive” simply means scoring points, and ultimately winning.
As a counterpoint, if a team is too passive and plays in an overly-defensive way, they are likely to tire out from the constant work on defending, and ultimately will likely lose the game.
In some activities, you MUST be aggressive to win.
In my own chosen sport of Karate for example, it is impossible to win a fight without being aggressive.
Now let’s bring this back to a professional context: are you and your team playing to win, or playing to defend?
As a leader, it is your job to give your team the right objectives, then to motivate them to push forward with an aggressive energy.
Attack ideas, attack project deadlines, attack process improvements, attack quality improvements...whatever the context, you and your team need to him them with energy!
In my experience, this is especially important within a large enterprise, with a lot of red tape and inertia slowing down progress.
The only way to break through such red tape is to attack it: think about breaking that defensive line on a Rugby pitch: it takes aggressive to punch the initial hole through it, then the rest of your team can follow you through that hole.
Your job as a leader is to challenge on topics, and call out topics that you think are wrong.
You can do this in an aggressive way, while still remaining polite, by attacking the ideas and NOT the people.
All ideas should be open to challenge, there should be no topics off limits to peer review.
If an idea is not robust enough to withstand review, then it should not be implemented.
Conversely, if a great idea fails because it was not pushed through aggressively enough, that is a real shame!
Don’t be passive with great plans: they need to be pushed hard, to be given every possible chance to succeed!
Push it hard right up to the point that it gathers it’s own momentum, and benefits from the flywheel effect. Then you can step back.
Finally, when you have your shoulder to the wheel, make sure you are not pushing alone: engage your team to push with you, and observe who pushes with you, and who pushes against.
Keep that list for latter.
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