Sunday 7th July 2024

Topics:

• Today I want to talk with you about why, sometimes, you need to step back and let people fail.
• When I first started to study karate, one of the black belts I was sparring noticed I was eager to attack, instead of waiting to defend.
• He paused and told me "John, don't feel obligated to attack".
• I often think about that advice, and how it can be expanded to be "don't feel obligated to intervene".
• As a leader, a coach, and a parent: I see people failing all of the time, or following strategies that is likely to lead them to failure.
• Normally I will intervene, especially if it is someone I care about like my kids or a student.
• However, whenever I am met with a stubborn response, increasingly I find myself stepping back and thinking "well, I tried".
• You cannot help someone who refuses your help.
• Back in 2021, I wrote the following blog entry: Letting stubborn people fail - https://techleader.pro/a/550-Letting-stubborn-people-fail
• I will read that to you now...
• We have another saying in karate, "feeling is believing", meaning you need to feel the impact of a technique applied against your before you believe in its effectiveness.
• Bad strategies followed by stubborn people often follow a similar path: those people need to feel the pain of the impact before they believe it was a bad idea.
• What I am working on this week:
  • Busy with my day job.
• Media I am enjoying this week:
  • Shipwreck by Charles Logan.

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